I like who I am. Over the years, I've decided who I want to be. I want to be polite refinement. I want to be casual ease. I want to be super mom and wonder wife. I want to be graceful elegance. I want to be sexy geek. I want to be selfishly selfless.
I won't nag. I don't want to be viewed that way. I won't pester you to do chores. It doesn't mean I won't ask you to do something. It just means I'll ask you once, and then I'll just do it myself. I am independent. That doesn't mean I will choose to pursue my passion and desires if it comes down to the choice between that or a request made of me, spoken or not. I'd rather put aside what I want if it means that you will gain a sense of fulfillment by my presence or actions. I will play with you, if that is what you want of me. I will give up what hours I may have. I don't want to say "screw you", even though some see that as spine and confidence. That's not who I want to be. That's not selfless. I will be strong and bold, but I won't do it at the cost of manners. I detest rudeness. I will put you before me if I see fit. Don't think less of me for doing so. I strive to be the person people appreciate, not put up with.
This is who I am, and I like it. I am a good and loyal friend. I am a firm yet loving mother. I am a happy and hopefully sexy wife. I am a hard worker. I will do my best in any situation I can. I will be the best me I can be.
This is the definition of me.
